BDSM toys for Vanilla Couples
Did you notice that usually people, when choosing a sex toy do not pay even slightest attention to BDSM toys and accessories? Of course, I mean vanilla couples who do not find it exciting to play tops and bottoms, to say nothing of humiliation, flogging and inflicting other kinds of pain.
This can be easily explained. The fact is that vanilla couples, I mean those who do not deal with BDSM activity, erroneously think that BDSM toys and accessories are designed only for torturing and humiliating. Having no wish to involve elements of cruelty, dominance and submission in their sexual relationships they deny BDSM toys even without knowing what these sex toys are.
Well, they might think so, but I do know that BDSM toys can greatly spice up your sexual relationships no matter whether you are involved in BDSM or you are a vanilla couple.
Of course, I do not mean such BDSM toys as whips and paddles and other flogging toys. These BDSM toys are certainly designed for beating and humiliation and a vanilla couple is very unlikely to introduce such devices. Neither I mean gags and various kinds of BDSM kits which look quite frightening for those who do not feel like playing doms and slaves.
These sex toys are not for you. But do believe me that there are some BDSM toys which you are likely to love using in your loveplay. I have some ideas, and I hope you will find them worth trying.
BDSM Toys for Your Pleasure
At least three BDSM toys can be used by a vanilla couple. These are - blindfolders, handcuffs and various kinds of ticklers. Let us speak about each of these BDSM toys in detail.
Blindfolders
Do you know that being deprived of a sense (vision or hearing) intensifies other senses? I mean that a blind person has better hearing and is more sensitive to touch. What about depriving your lover of vision? Thus you will make his or her erogenous zones extremely sensitive to stimulation. What is more, some areas which did not use to be sensitive before, might turn out to be true erogenous zones.
Sensations become intensive not only because of sensory deprivation. A blindfolded person does not know what his or her partner is going to do next, this expectation is very arousing.
Blindfold your lover with especial blindfolder (sorry for tautology) and stimulate every his or her erogenous zone with your tender palms, fingers, tongue or with a sex toy, for instance with a vibrator or….with another BDSM toy, with a tickler.
Ticklers
Did you ever try to stroke your lover's body with a feather? These are incredible sensations which cannot be compared with anything! What can be lighter and tenderer than a feather?
For this refined pleasure you can use such BDSM toy as a tickler. There are many various ticklers which might look like ostrich feathers, peacock feathers or simply brightly colored ticklers which will gently touch every your sweet spot. But be careful - do not tickle your lover up to laughing. Laughing has nothing to do with passion!
Handcuffs
Handcuffs might look too frightening to you. But may be you have seen only handcuffs which policemen use for arresting criminals. While browsing collections of handcuffs you will find plenty of very lovely handcuffs which might become one of your favorite sex toys.
With handcuffs you can restrain your lover and ….no, I do not mean you should restrain him or her for beating or humiliating, no! Indulge your beloved person's body with gentle touches, kisses, massage….Do whatever you want! Make your lover cry with enjoyment but do not let him orgasm….Make his pleasure longer. This seems to be like torture, but it is so sweet and temptating…..